The choreographer stated this in a video she posted on her social media page, Kaffy shared her personal experience of being subjected to inappropriate conduct by a trusted family friend when she was younger.

“I didn’t fully understand what was happening at the time, but I knew something about it was wrong,” “It occurred right in front of people who trusted the individual, and yet no one seemed to notice,” she said.

Kaffy emphasized that those who harm children often do not fit the common stereotype of a “monster.” In fact, many perpetrators can appear caring and helpful, which makes it even more important for parents to stay vigilant.

“People who hurt children often seem the most caring. They’re the ones who always want to help or be around your child,” she explained. “That’s why it’s crucial for parents to pay attention and set clear boundaries.”

The dancer stressed the importance of not being overly trusting of familiar figures like “favorite uncles,” “aunties,” or even trusted caregivers. She encouraged parents to teach their children that it is always okay to say “no” to unwanted touch or interactions, no matter the adult’s relationship to them.

“Parents need to be cautious of anyone who has regular access to their children—whether it’s a nanny, a driver, or even a family friend,” Kaffy advised. “Children often find themselves in uncomfortable situations with people they trust, which is why boundaries are essential.”

Kaffy further encouraged parents to foster emotionally safe environments for their children and to be alert to the early signs of potential harm.

Source: The Nation